Lately I have been watching documentaries about luminary, courageous, amazing people like Nelson Mandela, Miriam Makeba, and Mahatma Gandhi. They all possessed strength and amazing grit to stand in the face of injustice and fight on anyway. Equally amazing is that they didn’t let their hardships well, harden them. They were still loving, forgiving people even when they had a chance for vengeance and retaliation. On a smaller scale, I think many people display courage and grit, as well as love and forgiveness, in their challenges. Many are unsung in their valiant efforts to deal with oppression, poverty, and many other social ills. They are heroic nonetheless.
Similarly, I think we can all agree that the people who have served our country and given their lives, limbs, and health for our country are brave and praiseworthy. As we approach Veteran’s Day, I want to give thanks and praise to not only the people who serve our country in the military, but also the people who have courage and strength in the face of everyday challenges that might feel like a battle to them.
For some people with depression, just to get out of bed in the morning is an act of defiance against the disease that insidiously aims to claim their wellness. For people with PTSD and Panic Disorder, leaving the house can take tremendous courage to face the jarring, threatening stimuli outside their cozy sanctuaries. Folks with chronic illnesses like rheumatoid arthritis and fibromyalgia can also have difficulty even moving their bodies, and yet they persist in getting up, doing what needs to be done, and marching on through the pain and fatigue. Even to reveal one’s true self to a loved one and face possible rejection, which might seem small to many, can be terrifying and mystifying to couples in an embattled relationship, or families with a history of dysfunction. All these acts of valor go unsung, and yet we do them because something inside us says, “I must go on. I cannot let this problem conquer me; I deserve a better life and so do my children and their children, etc.” So for all those unsung heroes, please know that someone appreciates the struggles you face, and how brave you are to persist in the face of opposition.